"Let there be spaces in your togetherness, and let the winds of the heavens dance between you Love one another,but make not a bond of love
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls
Give your hearts,
but not into each others' keeping
For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts
And stand together yet not too near together
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,and the oak tree
and the cypress grow not in each others' shadow "

— Khalil Gibran